But last week after yet another time where he avoided my vaginal area completely--this was after I had bought some Zestra, and asked him to rub it on me, thinking that would be a turn on--I asked him point blank what the problem was, and he said that he didn't like the way my vaginal fluid felt on his fingers.
I thought that he meant the Zestra oil, but after further questioning he said that he didn't like to have my natural fluid felt, that he couldn't stand to have any type of baby oil or cream on his fingers outside the bedroom and that is what it felt like to him.
Maybe he is really just extremely shy and unknowledgable.
Men does after all not get born with this knowledge and compared to a penis, our sexuality is like a nuclear power plant in complexity.
In the past he's touched me, but each time seemed a bit shy about it.
I thought that was a little surprising, since as a woman I thought that men lived for this kind of thing, but I didn't want to force him to do something he didn't want to do.
He can rub your clitoris without entering your vagina and you can get a sex toy that he can use on you.