This will happen even if, or maybe I should say especially if, he is in denial about his gayness.
They even tell themselves they are straight convinced that their sexual interests are just that—sexual.
They don’t even consider that it is part of their real identity.
Later their gay sexual identities surface and here they are—heterosexually married with children.
They love their wives and they love their children.
Many straight women married to gay men consciously choose to do so with their eyes wide open.