It also keeps the control on my end because I don’t even ask her to call back, I vaguely state that I’ll try again “another time”. I’ll try again later.” Part of the killer aspect of this kind of voicemail is the creation of curiosity, but what really solidifies its effectiveness is the casual easy-going tone.
When girls hear this kind of voicemail from a guy they just met and whom they might be interested in (they DID give their number to him) and he keeps control of the schedule and vaguely states “another time”, they wonder “When? It also does not put the pressure on her to feel that by calling back she’s committing to something.
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" because it takes too much time for them to tell you). You would do anything to erase the voicemail icon off your home screen, except listen to the voicemails.
My relationship with voicemails is morbid, shaped by a vague worry that every call I receive from someone could be The Last Call.
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