If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner. Seth Meyers addresses one of the biggest issues women deal with (and struggle with) when it comes to men.
Instead of focusing on the negative (he didn’t call), redirect your attention to something positive.
Distraction is an extremely effective coping mechanism, and you can employ it in countless ways. If it’s been a couple days and he hasn’t called, give him a week or so until you decide to move on.
A mentor of mine always says, “Dating is risky business.” It’s risky, of course, because there’s always the chance of getting hurt.
If you are going to date, you need to accept that many different variables are at play when two people successfully come together and forge a real relationship.
If any of your thoughts or beliefs are negative, the hard work must begin: You must stop yourself from thinking those thoughts and tell yourself positive thoughts instead.